A generation ago, churches began to drop several liturgical elements from worship. While the addition of other elements like rhythm instruments and dance, a wider range of worship music, and child participation are welcome changes to children in many congregations, the downside of the loss of liturgical elements is that children may find it more difficult to participate.
Here’s why. A general ongoing rhythm of worship elements helps children feel more comfortable because they intuitively know what will be coming next, and repetition of songs and prayers helps them to participate.
Any repeating elements, such as responses to offering or prayers, give children a chance to memorize and participate. It doesn’t have to be the doxology (although it could be), but can be some other simple chorus. Repeated blessings that we say together or repeating songs of worship also help children to participate as part of the worshipping community. Short testimonials or brief moments of witness, that include personal stories are also kid friendly, especially if they include visuals and if some of those sharing are children.
One element dropped by some churches has been the reading of scripture, but I believe the Spirit can inspire and enlighten us through the word as it’s read beyond what is preached. The reading of scripture also gives children an opportunity to lead, because we can invite and empower them to participate as scripture readers. Such opportunities help to solidify a child’s sense of place in the church body.
It’s surprising how many churches have also dropped congregational prayer. I think people come to church expecting a place to confess and release their sin, pray for others, ask for direction, and thank God. Prayer is a place where we can help children witness the church body acknowledging the Lordship of Christ as well as help them grow in their own prayer life. By scattering these prayers throughout worship, children and adults alike will stay more focused.
As we prepare worship that allows children to participate and feel included and is consciously delivered with enthusiasm and joy, I believe we may find that it helps adults enter the presence of God more fully as well.
