A Ministry of Make and Deepen Disciples

What Is Embrace?

Human sexuality is among the most visible discipleship interests of our day. That is why Make and Deepen Disciples is pleased to offer Embrace.

Embrace is a suite of human sexuality discipleship resources and experiences which are in harmony with the adopted position of the Evangelical Covenant Church (ECC), the center of which is "Faithfulness in heterosexual marriage, celibacy in singleness—these constitute the Christian standard."

A special emphasis of Embrace is equipping our church to flourish in love for LGBTQ+/SSA/sexual minority* individuals and communities. Embrace resources will be progressively curated and created by Make and Deepen Disciples.

As we develop Embrace, we hope to receive feedback from diverse voices, especially with regard to existing resources or experiences which you have found to be helpful and effective. Please sign up for our mailing list to receive updates on all things Embrace, and feel free to connect with us any time at embrace@covchurch.org.

*A note on language: We recognize that in conversations about human sexuality, various constituencies use words and definitions in different ways. Meaning matters, and careless use of language can hinder true communication. In Embrace, we make an effort to curate and create resources that utilize a full range of human sexuality vocabulary interchangeably in order to make space for everyone.

Featured Resources—Summer 2018

We will regularly feature different resources that have been handpicked by Make and Deepen Disciples. Currently, we are featuring the following two resources produced by the Center for Faith, Sexuality, and Gender. Remember to sign up for the Embrace mailing list for updates on future featured resources.

People to Be Loved: Why Homosexuality Is Not Just an Issue
by Preston Sprinkle
In the midst of contemporary debates about homosexuality, Christians are looking for resources that are based solidly on a thorough study of what Scripture says. In People to Be Loved, Dr. Preston Sprinkle takes this deep dive into the Scriptures, rigorously engages with diverse interpretations, and ultimately upholds the validity of the traditional sexual ethic of heterosexual marriage and celibacy in singleness. At the same time, Sprinkle goes deeper. He challenges us with the reality that ultimately homosexuality is not just an issue—it is about people to be loved. Those holding the traditional view of human sexuality must still reconcile the Bible’s prohibition of same-sex relations with the message of the radical, unconditional grace of Jesus Christ. People to Be Loved is a powerful resource that gets us started on the journey.

Grace/Truth 1.0: Five Conversations Every Thoughtful Christian Should Have About Faith, Sexuality, and Gender
by Preston Sprinkle

Grace/Truth 1.0 is a five-week small group learning experience which introduces Christians to LGBTQ+/SSA people, explains language to use and avoid, presents a biblically faithful view of marriage and sexuality, and offers practical guidance on how to embody the love of Christ toward sexual and gender minorities. The accompanying Grace/Truth 1.0 video series is engaging and well-produced, and features the voices and real stories of sexual minority people. As of this writing, Grace/Truth 1.0 is unique in that it is the only comprehensive small group curriculum available to facilitate conversations around faith, human sexuality, and gender identity. It is an excellent resource to utilize for small groups, leadership teams, church staff, and more. Please be sure to see the ECC Supplement below for further recommendations on using Grace/Truth 1.0 in ECC contexts.

ECC Leader’s Guide Supplement for Grace/Truth 1.0.

The Embrace team has solicited feedback about Grace/Truth 1.0 from a diverse group of Covenant readers. This ECC supplement highlights FAQ and recommendations which have emerged from this feedback and are intended to be helpful for those seeking to utilize this resource within the context of the Evangelical Covenant Church. In addition to this ECC supplement, please be sure to review the Grace/Truth 1.0 small group leader’s guide.

Embrace: Webinar Series

The Embrace Webinar Series is an opportunity to engage in live conversations around human sexuality which will deepen us in understanding and compassion while equipping us with practical tools to love all people well. Previous webinar recordings are available here. All are invited to join the next webinar:

Embrace Webinar #6

The Joys and Challenges of Mixed-Orientation Marriage

Thursday, September 13, 12-1pm

 

 

Some LGBTQ+ people who uphold the historic Christian sexual ethic choose celibacy in singleness, whereas others pursue faithfulness in heterosexual marriage. But what does faithfulness in heterosexual marriage look like for those who experience persistent same-sex attraction? Join us for a conversation with Nate and Sara Collins who find themselves in such a “mixed-orientation marriage.” They will share the joys and challenges of their journey with us, and together we will explore such questions as: Is it possible for a non-straight person to fall in love with someone of the opposite sex? What is the difference between sexuality and sexual orientation? How can non-straight people who pursued heterosexual marriage in the hopes that it would “cure” them continue to walk in faithfulness in their marriages? Together we will explore what flourishing can look like within the context of mixed-orientation marriage.

Note: E-mail us questions in advance to be considered during the webinar at embrace@covchurch.org.

 

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Nate and Sara Collins
Nate Collins, Ph.D., is the author of All But Invisible: Exploring Identity Questions at The Intersection Of Faith, Gender, And Sexuality (Zondervan Academic, 2017). He is also the president and founder of Revoice, an organization that promotes LGBT+ flourishing in historic Christian traditions. Previously, Nate served as an Instructor of New Testament Interpretation at the Southern Baptist Theological Seminary where he also earned his PhD in New Testament. His wife Sara Collins, LMFT, is a licensed marriage and family therapist and currently works with children in the foster care system who need specialized treatment to help them cope with trauma. Nate and Sara were members of One Church, an Evangelical Covenant Church fellowship in Louisville, KY, and have recently relocated to St. Louis, MO.

Embrace: Resource Suite

Make and Deepen Disciples is working to curate and create practical human sexuality discipleship resources that are organized around the three core areas of head, heart, and hands. Below we highlight one key resource that is ready in each of these areas. As Embrace develops, each area will feature an expanded series of recommended resources. Remember to sign up for the Embrace mailing list as we continue to add core resources to this site.

Heart | Embrace Love

Create safe and compassionate space for relational connection

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Guiding Families of LGBT+ Loved Ones

This 140-page illustrated guide is a treasure trove of practical insights on how to honor God and deeply love the LGBT+ people in your life. It covers a number of topics, including how to:

  • Respond well when LGBT+ people come out
  • Understand risks LGBT+ youth face (family rejection, bullying, suicidality, and homelessness)
  • Avoid using unintentionally offensive words and phrases
  • Build a support team for LGBT+ loved ones and their families
  • Engage LGBT+ individuals in trusting relationship over the long term
  • Devote yourself to prayer that blesses LGBT+ loved ones and yourself

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Hands | Embrace Service

Make a difference with and for those who have been sexually marginalized or abused

Finding Common Ground on LGBTQ+ Ministry

Rooted in the values expressed in our six Covenant affirmations, the Evangelical Covenant Church has historically sought to find common ground on areas where many Christians have been divided.In light of this heritage, a diverse group of Covenanters (initially spearheaded by Pastor Randall Wilkens) developed a list of suggested ways in which we might find common ground in our ministry with and to LGBTQ+ people. This document is not meant to be an "official" statement or resolution of the ECC, but we do believe that it can serve as a starting point for conversations on how we can all tangibly excel in love for LGBTQ+ people.

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Embrace: Live Connections

There is no better way to grow than to engage in live formational experiences with real people. The following are upcoming opportunities to do just that, listed in chronological order. More opportunities will be added as they arise.

PostureShift Train50

Boston, MA / August 15-17

Lead Them Home empowers families and churches to love LGBT+ individuals like Jesus does. It offers a biblically sound and missiological approach to living out the Great Commandment to honor God and radically love people. More than 50,000 international, national, regional, and local leaders have experienced Posture Shift, a leading seminar on LGBT+ outreach and pastoral care. Posture Shift: Train50 takes Posture Shift’s impact to the next level. With a Posture Shift training certification, you and hundreds of leaders will be equipped to teach Posture Shift, swiftly multiplying the number of churches that will offer a place for LGBT+ people to grow in their faith identity.

**If you do register for PostureShift Train50, please complete this form so that we can connect with you!

Youth Worker Connection: Guiding Families of LGBT Loved Ones

Midwinter Youth Worker Connection (YWC) 2019: Guiding Families of LGBT+ Loved Ones

Denver, CO / Monday, January 21

On Monday of the Midwinter 2019 Youth Worker Connection in Denver, Colorado, Bill Henson will join us for an in-depth workshop on his fully updated resource: Guiding Families of LGBT+ Loved Ones: Second Edition. This 140-page illustrated guide is a treasure trove of practical insight on how to honor God and deeply love LGBT+ people in your life. Bill Henson is founder and president of Lead Them Home and the creator of the nationally leading Posture Shift Seminar. Bill has trained more than 50,000 Christian leaders and has guided 4,000 families over the last decade.

More information TBA.

Midwinter 2019 Embrace Leaders Forum

Midwinter 2019: Embrace Leaders Forum

Denver, CO / Wednesday, January 23

On Wednesday of Midwinter 2019 in Denver, Colorado, Preston Sprinkle, Michelle Sanchez (Executive Minister of Make and Deepen Disciples), and other presenters will engage in a half-day leaders’ forum to help ECC pastors and leaders engage tough questions about faith, sexuality, and gender with biblical faithfulness and courageous love. The forum will be thoughtful, dialogical, practical, and relational.

More information TBA.

Revoice Conference

St. Louis, MO / June 2019 (exact dates TBA)

The first-ever Revoice Conference took place in June, 2018 in St. Louis. Revoice is a new ministry which exists to see LGBTQ+/SSA/sexual minority people who adhere to the historic, Christian sexual ethic flourish in their local faith communities. The 2018 presenters and leading authors included Preston Sprinkle, Bill Henson, Wesley Hill, Greg Coles, Eve Tushnet, and Nate Collins.

Learn more at http://www.revoice.us/

Embrace: Wellness

Here we will compile recommended resources that promote overall wellness and healing in a number of areas related to sexuality. Potential topics to be engaged include sexual abuse, sexual harassment, divorce care, and freedom from pornography, among others. As an initial resource, Make and Deepen Disciples recommends:

Redeemed Sexuality: 12 Sessions for Healing and Transformation in Community
by Andrew A. Boa

Sexual brokenness permeates our culture and has found its way into the church. Even though Christians are called to value and celebrate sexuality as sacred and good, it is often a source of fear, shame, or secret sin. But it doesn’t have to be that way. Healthy sexuality concerns what we pursue, not just what we avoid, so Redeemed Sexuality invites emerging adults to seek sexual maturity and discipleship in the context of community. As we experience love, joy, and intimacy with God and others, sexual shame and sin lose their power, and we move further in our journey toward the wellness and flourishing that God intended.

Embrace: Youth

Generational differences are real and require contextualized discipleship approaches—perhaps especially when it comes to human sexuality and issues of gender identity in today’s rapidly changing culture. Embrace will seek to provide resources that are especially tailored for youth and/or those who love and minister to them. To start, Make and Deepen Disciples recommends:

Understanding Sexual Identity: A Resource for Youth Ministry
by Mark Yarhouse

This resource is a practical, compassionate explanation of how teens form their sexual identity in today’s culture. Yarhouse introduces readers to the developmental considerations in the formation of sexual identity which primarily occurs during the teen years. He offers practical ways to think about homosexuality along with suggestions for talking with people who experience same-sex attraction. He also helps us learn to graciously respond to children and teens who struggle with questions of sexual identity and discusses how youth ministry can become more relevant in the lives of youth who are navigating these issues. Pastors, youth ministry volunteers, and parents will understand how to help youth navigate today’s culture and form a sexual identity that honors Jesus Christ.

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As we develop Embrace, we hope to receive feedback from diverse voices, especially with regard to existing resources or experiences which you have found to be helpful and effective. Feel free to connect with us anytime at embrace@covchurch.org.

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